
Our desires are just the tip of the iceberg. Knowing our desires is like exploring our whole selves. Desires are the language of our soul to express its path for growth. The only thing is we must know how to handle our desires. How to deep dive and fulfill the main source of its generation and make the most out of it for our wholesome growth.
The root source of our desires is different from its very outcome. When we dig deep to know we realize that it is a demand from our core of being. And when we meet that demand, and fuel it with the right energy, it gets nourished and vanishes on its own. At the same time, it results in deep satisfaction at our other levels of being.
Say we are craving recognition for our work, say a hike in paycheck or acknowledgment from seniors in presence of all our colleagues. This is our craving. This is our desire and we are suffering badly in nonreceipt of same. Why? Am I not enough worth? I am giving more than needed even then? Our within cries. It is in our hands what to be done with this ongoing desire?
We have the choice of throwing tantrums, being in a state of deep stress, decrease in our productivity, non-cooperation, aloofness, or depression OR we can choose to turn inwards, try and know why we have this craving? What is it that is remaining dissatisfied and provoking this demand? Why? What? Where? The answer may vary from person to person. But say your answer is that you lack self-confidence. And if this is the reason, it would have been reflected in your work somewhere or other. Your lack of self-confidence can be the reason for not receiving what you deserve. And it can also be reflecting on many other areas of your life.
There are a few core areas in our life, and when we reach there and address them in the right manner, our life can flourish like anything. Unbound, Infinite. This is the reason, why remaining connected with the self is a must. Now in this case, once you have known your root cause, you need and try the solutions. You may go for self-talk, support near and dear ones, read books, turn to nature, and be in prayer mode. It should be how your within guides you. But you must take those steps. And in no while, life can be more beautiful and rich in many more facets. We may be shifted to yet another level.
For seekers, one more reason to deep dive into your desires is that you get to know yourself very well. You come to know more about your wholeness, your authenticity, your purpose of being, and at which level of life are you residing. The more you know about it all, the more power you generate to get it corrected, strengthen it, and lead toward an infinite version of you. And one day you reach a stage where by you now deeply understand all other fellows and their reactions in day-to-day life and you can handle it well. With authentic means, you are compassionate now, and you enhance. You make difference in others’ lives as well.
Do we need more?
In love with Life.
Your Co-Creator
Minal Dalal

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